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Wedding Etiquette – The Do’s & Don’ts 

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    The conventions of marriage have progressed much since your parents sealed the knot. So, what's the deal with #hashtags at weddings? When is it appropriate to begin drinking on the wedding day? We reached out to Stefanie Cove, the woman behind all those weddings we can't stop saving links to, to get the lowdown on what to do and what not to do as a wedding guest this summer. We learned everything from where to direct our inquiries to why we should ease off on the dancing.

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    We have officially entered wedding season. It's almost the weekend, which means it's time to get ready to party, socialise, and celebrate newlyweds. Guests at a wedding should do everything they can to provide a fun and stress-free event for themselves and everyone else. In other words, they should show up with everything they'll need and try not to bother the newlyweds or their family members too much. Important dos and don'ts for this year's wedding parties are outlined below.

    Guest At A Wedding

    You could say we're pros at getting ready for the most beautiful time of the year—summer wedding season—thanks to our extensive knowledge gained from watching marathons of Say Yes to the Dress and witnessing our pals being proposed to all over our Instagram feeds.

    Weddings are fantastic celebrations of two people's love for one another. Because so many of our friends are now wed, we haven't attended a wedding in years, although we do have T.W.O. Naturally, one mum is looking forwards to dressing up this month. We gotten a lot of requests to write about wedding guest dresses, so We figured now would be a good time to show you some possibilities for summer wedding guest dresses and how to wear them in the fall.

    Guidelines for the Perfect Wedding RSVP

    Don't put off responding; doing so increases the host's likelihood of having to scramble to accommodate your absence.

    Not a good idea: requesting to bring a guest. Nothing indicates a group invitation more than a blank invitation.

    Please confirm your attendance by responding with a "RSVP"

    A wedding takes months to prepare, so naturally, all of the invited guests have been invited and will be attending. Finding all of the guests who haven't returned the RSVP card can be a pain and a waste of time. Save the happy couple some time and effort by responding to their wedding invitation on time, whether by mailing a card or clicking a box on their wedding website. They'll value it very highly indeed.

    When it comes to feelings, nothing compares to a wedding for a lover of, well, love. Our hearts are melted by the boundless love and pure joy that surrounds us, and by the sight of the groom's tears streaming down his face as he watches the L.O.H.L. go down the aisle.

    Absolutely not; those tears are coming from YOU.

    We shopped at Nordstrom and came away with two excellent dresses for the transition from summer to fall at a price That could easily afford. We  show you how You wore them for a summer wedding, and then provide some links to items that will make them suitable for a fall ceremony as well.

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    Guidelines for Wedding Guest Attire

    Dress appropriately, showing off your personal flair. It's always entertaining to see guests' individual styles emerge despite the formal dress required.

    Don't: Wear white or anything that will draw too much attention to itself.

    Preparation is key for any kind of weather.

    How often have you been unprepared for rain after weeks of sunshine? Or, think of all the times you sat in the same spot during the hottest part of the day, only to end up with a sunburn on half your face. Make sure to bring enough of facial sunscreen, a stylish sun hat, and an umbrella for the big day.

    No longer should you sit at the kids table just because the bride and groom happen to be pals or because you're attending the wedding as a guest of honour. The new conundrum you find yourself in? How to get the perfect dress to wear as a guest!

    It's ideal to feel beautiful and at ease for these extended events. Furthermore, the outfit is being sold at a deeply discounted rate for tonight only. Follow the bride's instructions for a summer wedding in full bloom when you go to the wedding as a guest or bridesmaid.

    This Infinite Glory Body-Con Dress by Lulus is perfect for either a day or evening wedding because of its understated elegance. They wore the Dusty Rose version to an afternoon wedding, but it also comes in navy and burgundy, both of which are absolutely lovely options for a fall wedding. wearing an XS, and it is true to size.

    Taking the Kids to the Wedding ceremony

    To-do: Verify attendance and ask about special diet restrictions when they're extended an invitation.

    AVOID: Making any presumptions. You should usually contact the hosts if you have any doubts about whether or not to bring your children if they aren't named on the invitation. You want Melbourne's top wedding stylist, but you can't find one. Never fear, Boutique Event Group has you covered.

    Put on your dance shoes!

    Those shoes are really cute; they go wonderfully with your breezy summer wedding guest attire. Yet, weddings take a long time, and you certainly don't want to be confined to a chair the whole time. After wearing stilettos for a couple of hours, you may want to switch to more comfortable footwear, such as flats or flip-flops. Besides, who says convenience has to imply sacrificing adorability? Try on a pair of these rose gold sandals as you ease out of your painful heels and into a carefree evening. It's possible that you could even attend the after-party.

    Whether the nuptials will be held in a traditional church, a backyard, or a far-flung locale, you'll want to look your best. It's crucial to give the bride her due as the centre of attention in a white dress. Get out on the dance floor as soon as the reception begins to prove that you can party like it's 1999!

    However, please remember to RSVP first!

    It will do a number on your curves if you don't wear Spanx. These shoes that We wore with it are fantastic. They're easy to wear and don't make you bulky underneath (great if it's warm). Moreover, They wore the go-to shoes for dressier occasions, which are these classic black Sam Edelman pumps. These are quite tall, so if you need a shorter pair (same shoe, lesser heel! ), Would recommend these.

    Wedding Etiquette

    Wedding timetable

    In other words, don't be late. And please silence your phones in preparation for the event.

    Don't: stroll in while things are still going on. If you really must be here, please move to the very back of the room and try to blend in as much as possible.

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    Don't shoot off an SMS to the newlyweds

    Looking for directions to the after-party but having trouble getting there? Have no idea when the Sunday brunch following the wedding is. If you have questions, you shouldn't bother the stressed-out newlyweds. Though it's easy to send a quick message, it's not fair to put undue pressure on them if you haven't already seen their website. And that might not be the best strategy for getting a reply.

    You're here because you put faith in fairytales and coincidences and think that finding the right wedding guest dress is possible. Dresses with feminine lace accents in bold summer hues or rich fall/winter tones will make you the centre of attention everywhere you go. Don't know what hue best describes your mood? You should definitely give the summer's "it" colour a try, and you should definitely try it in short, flirtatious hems in wonderful lavender shades. Don't pretend otherwise; you covet that bouquet.

    Another outfit That purchased was a Topshop Plunge Slipdress. The plunging neckline suggests an evening wedding, but Also adore the simple elegance of the rest of the dress. This size two fits me like a zero.

    Posting Etiquette for a Wedding on Social Media

    Take care to publish only appropriate content. Though some couples may like to be the first to share news of their nuptials on social media, others may prefer to keep the event private.

    Make sure you reserve a room in advance.

    If you don't have a place to stay and don't want to be that person who orders a cot at the last minute, plan beforehand. That's the number one tip to follow so you don't end up lost at the end of a night of partying and booze. In spite of how elementary it sounds, it often occurs. Hotel discounts can be found on Expedia and Hotels.com.

    There is no such thing as being late for you, and you have a penchant for paying close attention to detail. What is your secret? You're already the perfect wedding guest, so a chic sleeveless midi-length gown or timeless wrap silhouette might be just what you need. Go ahead and wear that midi dress with the eye-popping print or complete ruffle accents that are all the rage this season; you can afford to stretch your fashion boundaries a little bit.

    Still rocking the same Sam Edelman shoes (they really are versatile!) and accessorising with a Clare V. clutch that is among my favourites. We know this clutch is out of your price range, but They did find one similar that's a little cheaper. To emphasise the low V-neck, We used a Y-shaped choker from BaubleBar. However, if you don't want to wear a necklace, just a pair of dramatic earrings can do the trick!

    Not that it's required, but rather not have people snap shots with their phones during the service. This will prevent the obligatory photos of everyone holding their phones aloft.

    Not sure how you want your wedding stationery to look? Check out our list of 28 Wedding Invitation Ideas to help you choose.

    A Wedding Gift is a Must!

    Guests at a wedding are customarily given a gift as a token of appreciation for participating in the celebration (which undoubtedly cost the couple a pretty penny). It's a wonderful gesture to send the happy couple as they begin their married life together. A card from would be nice, but not required. There is a wide variety of wedding congrats cards available, including many that cater to same-sex unions. And if you know you'll be going to multiple weddings this summer, it makes sense to stock up and save on shipping costs.

    You are in LOVE with LOVE. In addition, you enjoy imbibing to a rather large extent. You look great, but you could use a little more drama to go along with all that romance. These daring maxi gowns are as sultry as the bride and will make you feel as beautiful as she does. For a more modern look, try a dress with a choker neckline or a fitted body that features a beautiful halter accent in jewel tones.

    Adding a pashmina is a great way to take things from summer to fall. These dresses are perfect for layering with a classic pashmina scarf, which may be worn as a shawl over the shoulders. The versatility of a neutral hue makes it an ideal choice for coordinating with other hues. A blazer is another viable choice.

    Acceptance Speech at a Wedding

    The do is to speak to both members of the couple, rather than just one. When appropriate, I also think it's nice to express gratitude to the hosting families.

    A word of caution: don't drag your words out. All toasts should last no more than three minutes. This keeps everyone interested and prevents any delays in the evening's activities.

    Don't be harsh

    Nothing is more discouraging to the happy couple than hearing from an unsatisfied visitor about how long the ceremony was or how unimpressed they were with the reception meal. Those of us who go to a number of weddings each summer are likely to develop strong opinions about various aspects of these ceremonies. Avoid bringing any unwelcome gloom to the happy couple on their special day.

    You're the sort that can smell the love in the air, so why not go for something airy and carefree? Dress to impress with floral ruffles or lovely bohemian accents; alternatively, flaunt your curves in a v-neck cut and bell sleeves.

    About Wedding Drinking

    Have fun drinking, but to lessen the severity of your hangover the next day, stick to one type of alcohol at a time.

    Don't: Remember that you and the bride and groom are making memories for the rest of your lives, so don't become so intoxicated that you risk embarrassing the two of them.

    Have some fun and chill out

    The happy couple and their families have made extensive preparations to ensure that the wedding is warm and enjoyable for all of the guests. Ignore the drama at the office, the stressful commute, and the high cost of your weekend accommodation. While you're there, try your best to take in the festivities, feast on the delicious food, and feel the love of the newlyweds.

    Conclusion

    Summer wedding season means it's time to party, socialise, and celebrate newlyweds. We reached out to Stefanie Cove for advice on what to do and what not to do as a wedding guest. We show you how You wore for a summer wedding, and then provide some links to items suitable for a fall ceremony. Dress appropriately, showing off your personal flair.

    Wear white or anything that will draw too much attention to itself. Make sure to bring enough of facial sunscreen, a stylish sun hat, and an umbrella. Try on a pair of these rose gold sandals as you ease out of your painful heels and into a carefree evening. They wore the go-to shoes for dressier occasions, which are these classic black Sam Edelman pumps.

    Don't shoot off an SMS to the newlyweds for directions to the after-party. If you don't have a place to stay and don't want to be that person who orders a cot at the last minute, plan beforehand. Some couples may like to be the first to share news of their nuptials on social media. You're already the perfect guest, so a chic sleeveless midi-length gown or timeless wrap silhouette might be just what you need. For a more modern look, try a dress with a choker neckline or a fitted body that features a beautiful halter accent in jewel tones.

    A wedding gift is a wonderful gesture to send the happy couple as they begin their life together. Pashminas are a great way to take things from summer to fall. The versatility of a neutral hue makes it an ideal choice for coordinating with other hues. Dress to impress with floral ruffles or lovely bohemian accents; alternatively, flaunt your curves in a v-neck cut and bell sleeves.

    Content Summary:

    1. When is it appropriate to begin drinking on the wedding day?
    2. We reached out to Stefanie Cove, the woman behind all those weddings we can't stop saving links to, to get the lowdown on what to do and what not to do as a wedding guest this summer.
    3. It's almost the weekend, which means it's time to get ready to party, socialise, and celebrate newlyweds.
    4. Guests at a wedding should do everything they can to provide a fun and stress-free event for themselves and everyone else.
    5. In other words, they should show up with everything they'll need and try not to bother the newlyweds or their family members too much.
    6. Important dos and don'ts for this year's wedding parties are outlined below.
    7. You could say we're pros at getting ready for the most beautiful time of the year—summer wedding season—thanks to our extensive knowledge gained from watching marathons of Say Yes to the Dress and witnessing our pals being proposed to all over our Instagram feeds.
    8. We gotten a lot of requests to write about wedding guest dresses, so We figured now would be a good time to show you some possibilities for summer wedding guest dresses and how to wear them in the fall.
    9. A wedding takes months to prepare, so naturally, all of the invited guests have been invited and will be attending.
    10. Finding all of the guests who haven't returned the RSVP card can be a pain and a waste of time.
    11. Save the happy couple some time and effort by responding to their wedding invitation on time, whether by mailing a card or clicking a box on their wedding website.
    12. When it comes to feelings, nothing compares to a wedding for a lover of, well, love.
    13. We  show you how You wore them for a summer wedding, and then provide some links to items that will make them suitable for a fall ceremony as well.wedding couple on vogue ballroom balcony. Dress appropriately, showing off your personal flair.
    14. Preparation is key for any kind of weather.
    15. Make sure to bring enough facial sunscreen, a stylish sun hat, and an umbrella for the big day.
    16. No longer should you sit at the kids table just because the bride and groom happen to be pals or because you're attending the wedding as a guest of honour.
    17. How to get the perfect dress to wear as a guest!It's ideal to feel beautiful and at ease for these extended events.
    18. This Infinite Glory Body-Con Dress by Lulus is perfect for either a day or evening wedding because of its understated elegance.
    19. wearing an XS, and it is true to size.
    20. You should usually contact the hosts if you have any doubts about whether or not to bring your children if they aren't named on the invitation.
    21. You want Melbourne's top wedding stylist, but you can't find one.
    22. Put on your dance shoes! Those shoes are really cute; they go wonderfully with your breezy summer wedding guest attire.
    23. It's possible that you could even attend the after-party.
    24. Whether the nuptials will be held in a traditional church, a backyard, or a far-flung locale, you'll want to look your best.
    25. It's crucial to give the bride her due as the centre of attention in a white dress.
    26. Get out on the dance floor as soon as the reception begins to prove that you can party like it's 1999!
    27. It will do a number on your curves if you don't wear Spanx.
    28. They're easy to wear and don't make you bulky underneath (great if it's warm).
    29. Don't: stroll in while things are still going on.
    30. If you really must be here, please move to the very back of the room and try to blend in as much as possible.
    31. Don't shoot off an SMS to the newlywedsLooking for directions to the after-party but having trouble getting there?
    32. Have no idea when the Sunday brunch following the wedding is.
    33. If you have questions, you shouldn't bother the stressed-out newlyweds.
    34. You're here because you put faith in fairytales and coincidences and think that finding the right wedding guest dress is possible.
    35. Don't know what hue best describes your mood?
    36. Though some couples may like to be the first to share news of their nuptials on social media, others may prefer to keep the event private.
    37. Make sure you reserve a room in advance.
    38. If you don't have a place to stay and don't want to be that person who orders a cot at the last minute, plan beforehand.
    39. There is no such thing as being late for you, and you have a penchant for paying close attention to detail.
    40. You're already the perfect wedding guest, so a chic sleeveless midi-length gown or timeless wrap silhouette might be just what you need.
    41. Go ahead and wear that midi dress with the eye-popping print or complete ruffle accents that are all the rage this season; you can afford to stretch your fashion boundaries a little bit.
    42. However, if you don't want to wear a necklace, just a pair of dramatic earrings can do the trick! Not that it's required, but rather not have people snap shots with their phones during the service.
    43. Not sure how you want your wedding stationery to look?
    44. These daring maxi gowns are as sultry as the bride and will make you feel as beautiful as she does.
    45. Adding a pashmina is a great way to take things from summer to fall.
    46. These dresses are perfect for layering with a classic pashmina scarf, which may be worn as a shawl over the shoulders.
    47. Avoid bringing any unwelcome gloom to the happy couple on their special day.
    48. Dress to impress with floral ruffles or lovely bohemian accents; alternatively, flaunt your curves in a v-neck cut and bell sleeves.
    49. Have fun drinking, but to lessen the severity of your hangover the next day, stick to one type of alcohol at a time.
    50. Remember that you and the bride and groom are making memories for the rest of your lives, so don't become so intoxicated that you risk embarrassing the two of them.
    51. The happy couple and their families have made extensive preparations to ensure that the wedding is warm and enjoyable for all of the guests.
    52. While you're there, try your best to take in the festivities, feast on the delicious food, and feel the love of the newlyweds.

    Frequently Asked Questions About Wedding Etiquette

    Here are important dos and don't when it comes to wedding guest etiquette.

    • Don't: Assume You Can Bring a Plus-One. 
    • Do RSVP Before the Deadline. 
    • Don't: Ignore the Dress Code. 
    • Do: Read the Wedding Website. 
    • Do: Be Punctual. 
    • Don't: Take Photos During the Ceremony. 
    • Do: Leave the Bride Alone.
    • Don't: Go Overboard on Drinks.

    Things You Should Never Do at Weddings

    • Get Engaged.
    • Give a Drunk Speech.
    • Wear a White Dress.
    • Show Up Late.
    • Strip Tease on the Dance Floor.
    • Wing a Wedding Speech.
    • Show Up the Bride.
    • Bring a Random Gift.

    The officiant, groom, and best man enter first and stand at the altar. Then enter the bride's attendants, either escorted by the groom's attendants or alone. The maid or matron of honour enters last. Sometimes, the best man and maid/matron of honour enter together, but it's less traditional.

    White is still the main colour you can't wear to a wedding. Eighty per cent of brides wear white to their wedding, and a bride must stand out at her wedding. Even if it isn't the intent, a guest wearing white can be seen as an attempt to upstage the bride—and that's a no-no.

    It can add insult to injury if you wear a red dress that's also inappropriate for the dress code. For instance, at a black-tie wedding, wearing a red ball gown that would be appropriate only for a white-tie event is a sure way to look like you're trying to upstage everyone in the room, including the bride.

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