Stress levels are bound to rise when making preparations for a wedding at a far-off location. Thus, before making any reservations, you should determine your exact travel and housing requirements. The first thing is to decide on the location of your event, then find out if the location has an available airport that will service the area for guests coming from overseas.
Destination weddings can be a great way to spend time with family and friends, but they also come with a lot of stress.
It might be overwhelming to plan a wedding at a faraway location, but there are some things to keep in mind.
If you're wondering about the weather, for instance, what might you expect? When in the year do you plan to tie the knot? How convenient would it be to not have a car? Is your accommodation convenient for guests to stroll to the ceremony and reception? These are just some of the questions that need answers before making any reservations.
Once you have a rough notion of your destination, it's essential to arrange transportation for everyone attending the event.
A wedding at a special location is a wonderful opportunity to celebrate in a more personal and cozy setting. Wherever holds special significance for you and your loved one is the perfect spot. There are a lot of places you could go, but it's hard to pick the finest one.
This article will provide you with useful advice on how to organize your entire destination wedding with ease.
1. Destination wedding etiquette for the Bride and Groom
Do Pick a Location Thoughtfully
It's the kind of day that dreams are made of. There is always a way to make it happen, even if you originally envisioned it happening in an exotic location. But if you're flexible about where you go, it'll be simpler on everyone if you take a few things into account.
When you arrange a wedding at a scenic site, you may save money on decorations because the scenery itself will be a work of art. So, don't go crazy with the decorations; instead, highlight the venue's natural features.
Dates that avoid peak travel seasons, like spring break, can help keep prices down for the whole group if anyone is worried about money.
However, there are other factors to consider, such as hurricane season, that may prevent you from choosing days when attendees can get cheap airfare.
Choose your hair and clothing accordingly. If the venue for your wedding is outside and subject to strong winds, a loose hairstyle is not recommended.
If it's going to be hot on the big day, make sure you and your bridesmaids are wearing appropriate attire. Because of its airy nature, chiffon is a fantastic fabric choice for weddings that take place in warmer climates.
Is your invited party not up for some excitement? Consider whether or not guests can get there with a single, straightforward journey, or if they will have to deal with the hassle of connecting flights, boat rides, or bus rides. Do you think learning a new language would make you nervous?
Before deciding on a specific location to say your "I dos," think about what's most important to you and your guests.
Don't Book It Sight Unseen
In the same way that you wouldn't book a venue and spend thousands of dollars on a place you've never been to for a local wedding, there's no need to do so for a destination wedding.
The additional travel budget might be tough to find at times. But if you can make some adjustments to your spending, you will find that it is well worth it.
Your wedding day ought to be filled with pleasant surprises. The best way to handle unpleasant ones is to plan ahead and know what to expect. Set aside time well before the big day to visit your location, your venue, hotel, and any hotels you may recommend to your guests.
After all, it would be terrible if guests checked in only to find that the to-die-for infinity pool was closed forever or there was a massive construction site next door, neither of which were visible on the website photo.
Who pays for what?
Wedding guests are often on the hook for their own travel and lodging expenses when attending a destination nuptial. In special cases, however, where otherwise indispensable visitors just wouldn't be able to attend without financial support, an exception can and should be granted.
The bride and groom often pay for the rest of the wedding, including the ceremony, reception, food, beverages, and any other extras.
The bride and groom often foot the bill for the wedding's extras, such as favor bags stuffed with personalized trinkets. Oftentimes, too, the families of the bride and groom will pay for a portion or all of the wedding costs.
A helpful hint when reserving a hotel or resort for a destination wedding is to specify the number of guests in your party. With this information, you'll be able to bargain for a more affordable pricing for your gathering. It's also worth noting that certain airlines provide discounts for large bookings.
Stick to your budget
Inconspicuously overspending is a common problem that can arise when spending plans aren't strictly adhered to. But if you aren't watchful, even the tiniest costs may quickly balloon into a significant sum. This is why it's imperative that you give a detailed account of every single dollar.
And remember that it's preferable to have some extra cash on hand than than to be short. Planning a destination wedding increases the likelihood of unexpected costs cropping up at the eleventh hour.
Negotiate
As much as it hurts to consider it, unless you have an unlimited cash flow, everything is up for discussion and negotiation. In addition, the goal of a successful negotiation is not necessarily to pay the lowest possible price for a product or service. Instead, emphasis should be placed on maximization of value.
You may not be able to negotiate a lower price in some sectors (such as with a photographer), but you may be able to negotiate for additional prints or better quality. Keep an open mind; perhaps you can cut costs significantly by switching out the flowers in the centerpieces with a comparable bloom that is in season or less expensive.
The filet mignon and lobster may be replaced with steak and prawns. Determine if the venue allows guests to bring their own alcoholic beverages.
Manage your guest list
Living with someone and taking a trip with them are the two best ways to truly get to know another person. Keep the guest list small so that your destination wedding doesn't cause rifts between loved ones.
Limit your guest list to to those folks whose absence would leave you feeling cheated out of a part of the celebration. Once you get home, you can plan a reception for your guests.
Do Guarantee VIPs Can Attend Before You Post Your Invites
You've probably already thought up your ideal guest list, just as you've probably already thought out your ideal wedding location.
You should check with your parents, close relatives, and best friends before purchasing and sending out invites to make sure that everyone is excited about the event. If you receive a green light from them, you may begin planning next steps.
Don't Pressure Your Guests to Attend
There is no such thing as a "ideal" vacation spot, day, or time. On the other hand, only approximately half of those invited to destination events actually attend.
Don't forget to make other arrangements for those who can't make it and let them know how much you appreciate their understanding.
You shouldn't make anyone feel forced to come to your destination wedding because of the high cost of travel and lodging compared to a wedding closer to home.
Give guests time to plan
It's vital to give your guests plenty of notice, as the choice to have a destination wedding may be made on the spur of the moment.
Sending out save-the-date cards eight to ten months in advance of a destination wedding is recommended, with invitations going out at least three months beforehand. Because of this, invitees have plenty of time to prepare and respond.
Make sure everyone can make the vacation by sending out save-the-dates at least six months in advance. Travelers may take advantage of the greatest deals because of this. Airline companies frequently promote group travel discounts for events requiring 10 or more seats.
Do Give Guests Several Options for Accommodations
The hotel options you provide will accommodate a wide range of preferences and price ranges. Provide clear information on your website, and make sure that everyone can participate by planning events and transportation to and from each venue.
Make your guests feel welcome at the destination
No matter how organized the wedding planners at your resort are, you will still have to play host during your destination wedding. Having a casual get-together to celebrate everyone's arrival is a great plan.
Guests will appreciate a welcome package stocked with beach essentials if your establishment is located in a warm climate like the Caribbean. Maybe you want to start (or join) a Whatsapp group where people can exchange practical information (such what to wear), or have someone else take care of it for you.
Don't Overlook a Warm—or Refreshing—Welcome
Have the front desk staff offer customers a drink at check-in, such as a hot cocoa or mulled cider in the winter, sparkling cider (or, why not, a glass of Champagne) in the city, and an Arnold Palmer or cold cucumber water on the beach.
Tell your hosts to whip up something special for the littlest (and most grumpy) guests. Just have them add a squiggly straw, a colorful umbrella, a skewer of tropical fruit, a handful of small marshmallows, or a dab of whipped cream to each glass.
Don't Cut It Close
Each member of the wedding party should give themselves plenty of time to get to the ceremony so that no one from your inner circle misses out on the great day.
Particularly in tropical regions, unforeseen transportation problems seem to crop up often. If a crucial piece is missing, it's preferable to exclude it entirely rather than race to locate a suitable replacement.
It's no one's preference to come in as a close second. Your wedding insurance policy may include a provision that allows for a group shot at a later time.
Make gift giving easy for your guests
Gift giving for a destination weddingis unclear, especially taking into account the cost of travel for your guests. Some hosts therefore choose not to exchange presents, instead emphasizing the value of their guests' attendance.
Others go out of their way to keep things virtual and straightforward so that visitors don't have to lug around bulky supplies.
If you decide to go through with a gift registry for your destination wedding, one option for keeping your luggage under control is to specify that you would only take gift cards. Guests can also be encouraged to share in the celebration by being listed in the guestbook.
Do Register for Gifts
Everyone wants to show their appreciation during a wedding by presenting a gift. It's important to remember that many of your guests will be spending a significant amount of money on plane tickets, so it's a good idea to load your wish list with items that can be purchased at a variety of price points.
In addition, you have far-flung loved ones who will want to send you a present but won't be able to get there. Get on the list already!
Don't Feel Obligated to Invite Children
In any case, let your guests know that children are welcome to attend your wedding, as many of them will likely wish to combine your special day with a family vacation.
Arrange for babysitter services in advance to help them out.
Your wedding invitations should be sent solely to adults, and your website should include the line "babysitting may be arranged for your convenience."
If you want privacy after the reception, plan for it
After the ceremony, some newlyweds like to go to a quiet room at a separate hotel.
This isn't necessarily the most practical solution, but it is sometimes the best. Sandals and other similar all-inclusive resorts are tailored for couples, so you may enjoy some privacy while your family stays at the neighboring Beaches resort.
After the ceremony, the parents may relax in Sandals' adult-only section while the kids splash about at a nearby water park at a Beaches property. It's a good idea to let your guests know that you'll be upgrading to a honeymoon suite when the wedding reception is over.
Incorporating local traditions and cultures
Ask your wedding planner ahead of time how you can best honor any cultural customs you'd like to observe throughout the ceremony. Learn as much as you can so that you know what is expected of you and what is not.
Keep guests up to speed
Guests should be kept up-to-date on the ceremony's schedule, transportation options, and emergency contacts throughout the whole weekend. For ease of communication, some couples create a simple website for the wedding.
Do Provide Transportation for Your Wedding Guests
Shuttle your guests from the airport to their accommodations by hiring a van service or limo. It would be really nice if you could hire a guide who is well familiar with the area.
As they make their way to their accommodations, guests will have the opportunity to ask questions, receive a complimentary history lecture, and take in the local views. If you want to score extra points, you can put a "Welcome!" sign in the van's window to cheer up jetlagged passengers.
Do Stock Guests' Rooms
It's not necessary, but it is appreciated, if you provide your visitors with some bottled water and a small selection of snacks that can fulfill their sweet and salty needs. Gifts like a map, a notebook and pen, or a compact travel guide may be entertaining and appreciative.
Don't Hold Back on Celebrating
Make plans for a bigger party when you get back to town. Put an announcement along with the wedding invites. That way, people who are unable to join you for the celebration may rest certain that they will be able to do so at a later date.
Don't ship anything important
Please do not send your wedding dress or any other items that you will require on your wedding day if you are having a destination wedding. There's a significant possibility that your shipment may be delayed by customs for weeks, go missing in route, or be stolen.
Leave room for socialising
If your guests have never met each other before, icebreakers are a great way to get the conversation flowing. Allowing guests to bring a guest can help bring together guests from different backgrounds. Plan activities like boat cruises and sightseeing trips in addition to the first welcome reception.
They've made the effort to come see you, therefore you should definitely hang out with the attendees. The honeymoon is your chance to relax and spend time together, but you will also have plenty of time to yourselves.
If you don't want to feel obligated to spend time with visitors who extend their stay, you might choose to plan your honeymoon elsewhere.
Don't Stress about RSVP’s
Almost every woman who has ever planned a destination wedding has worried that no one will turn up. When do they plan to reserve their lodging and transportation? If that describes you, please reconsider.
No matter how worried you are, you have no say in who goes or when they make reservations. The ones that matter to you the most will hopefully be present.
We can assure you, as we have with practically every previous destination bride, that you will be so happy and excited on your wedding day that you won't even notice the people who weren't able to attend. You won't remember them at all.
Do Treat Your Wedding Website Like a Mini Guidebook
Your guests will need access to the area, and your wedding website will provide that. You should mention places to stay, vehicle rental agencies (if that's needed), and public transportation times and routes on your website.
Also, make sure they know what to wear and what they should bring with them on the trip, including hiking shoes or snow boots if you intend on exploring the outdoors, sunscreen if the hotel doesn't supply it, and a shawl if you're traveling to a warm destination with a cold evening temperature.
It's a well-organized approach to show your appreciation for their work while also providing them a sneak peak at your upcoming activities.
Do Consider Hiring a Local Wedding Planner
Going without a planner can save money, but only if you're ready to put in the time and effort necessary to choose your own venue, caterer, florist, and musicians.
If you aren't familiar with the area where your wedding will be held, it's probably better to hire a professional who can make sure all of the necessary arrangements are made with respectable providers.
She will be familiar with the venue and local service providers, and she can guide you and your guests through any issues of cross-cultural etiquette that may arise, such as how to appropriately tip servers.
Don't Act Like a Cruise Director
It is entirely up to you whether or not you offer daily activities for your visitors.
At the absolute least, you should provide a welcome meal for your visitors on the first night so they can meet one another, and your website should have useful information about the area so they can arrange their own activities while they're there.
A personalized top 10 list of local attractions is also a welcome addition. Determining a central gathering spot, such as a breakfast buffet, where individuals can locate one other on a daily basis is another wonderful concept.
Have a hair/makeup trial
The images will last forever, and so will your hair and cosmetics. However, we just do not have the time to recount the number of brides who have tried out new hairstyles or makeup looks on their wedding day, resulting in a disastrous outcome.
Don't risk looking ridiculous on your wedding day by hiring unknown hair and makeup artists in a foreign nation. You should definitely organize a hair and cosmetics trial if you can afford a pre-wedding trip before the big day.
A few days before the wedding would be ideal, but if not, do it then. No matter what time it is, just do it.
Don't Skimp on Photography
When everything is said and done, your photographs will be the only thing left to remind you of those times. Taking pictures will be your only hope of ever remembering that special day.
Do you want to someday be able to look at photographs and remember how wonderful it was to celebrate your wedding in a faraway place with those you love?
Or would you rather look back and wish you had splurged on the greatest quality photos money could buy? If you're considering a destination wedding, don't skimp on the photographer only to save a few hundred dollars.
Destination wedding etiquette for the guests
Ask before inviting a plus one
Do not presume that just because you have been invited, you are able to invite a guest. In order to avoid adding any unanticipated costs to the couple's budget, you should consult with them in advance.
Pack accordingly
To avoid showing up unprepared, make sure to study the wedding itinerary carefully and bring appropriate attire. Take into account the weather forecast and the wedding's aesthetic while deciding what to bring.
Don’t overspend on a gift
To determine whether or not you can afford to acquire a gift, and if so, how much, you should take into account the amount of money you spent traveling there. Do your best to ground yourself in reality.
If you must give a present, consider sending a gift card or something easily transportable to the happy couple before they leave on their honeymoon. After a wedding in Jamaica, it might be tricky to transport a large amount of kitchenware back to the United States.
It’ll be a fun ride!
It's important for everyone involved, from the bride and groom to the wedding party, to put in plenty of time and effort while preparing a wedding at a faraway location. If you're the bride or groom, these tips should help you pull off a beautiful ceremony, and if you're simply attending, you'll feel prepared to enjoy every moment of this once-in-a-lifetime event.
Conclusion
Destination weddings can be a great way to spend time with family and friends, but they also come with a lot of stress. It might be overwhelming to plan a wedding at a faraway location, but there are some things to keep in mind. This article will provide advice on how to organize your entire destination wedding. If it's going to be hot on the big day, make sure you and your bridesmaids are wearing appropriate attire. Chiffon is a fantastic fabric choice for weddings that take place in warmer climates.
Additional travel costs might be tough to find, but if you can make some adjustments to your spending, it is well worth it. Planning a destination wedding increases the likelihood of unexpected costs. A helpful hint when reserving a hotel is to specify the number of guests in your party. Certain airlines provide discounts for large bookings. Negotiate and keep an open mind about how much you can cut costs.
You should check with your parents, close relatives, and best friends before purchasing and sending out invites. Make sure everyone can make the vacation by sending out save-the-dates at least six months in advance. Don't forget to make other arrangements for those who can't make it. Gift giving for a destination wedding is unclear, especially taking into account the cost of travel for your guests. Some hosts choose not to exchange presents, emphasizing the value of their guests' attendance.
Others go out of their way to keep things virtual and straightforward so that visitors don't have to lug around bulky supplies. Some newlyweds like to go to a quiet room at a separate hotel after the ceremony. Sandals and other similar all-inclusive resorts are tailored for couples. It's not necessary, but it is appreciated if you provide your guests with bottled water and snacks. Plan activities like boat cruises and sightseeing trips in addition to the first welcome reception.
Leave room for socialising if your guests have never met each other before. If you don't want to feel obligated to spend time with visitors who extend their stay, you might choose to plan your honeymoon elsewhere. Brides-to-be should consider hiring a local wedding planner to help them choose their venue, caterer, florist, and musicians. Make sure they know what to wear and what they should bring with them on the trip, including sunscreen and a shawl. It's important for everyone involved, from the bride and groom to the wedding party, to put in plenty of time and effort while preparing a wedding at a faraway location. These tips should help you pull off a beautiful ceremony, and if you're simply attending, you'll feel prepared to enjoy every moment.
Content Summary
- Thus, before making any reservations, you should determine your exact travel and housing requirements.
- The first thing is to decide on the location of your event, then find out if the location has an available airport that will service the area for guests coming from overseas.
- It might be overwhelming to plan a wedding at a faraway location, but there are some things to keep in mind.
- Once you have a rough notion of your destination, it's essential to arrange transportation for everyone attending the event.
- A wedding at a special location is a wonderful opportunity to celebrate in a more personal and cozy setting.
- Wherever holds special significance for you and your loved one is the perfect spot.
- This article will provide you with useful advice on how to organize your entire destination wedding with ease.1.
- But if you're flexible about where you go, it'll be simpler on everyone if you take a few things into account.
- So, don't go crazy with the decorations; instead, highlight the venue's natural features.
- Choose your hair and clothing accordingly.
- If it's going to be hot on the big day, make sure you and your bridesmaids are wearing appropriate attire.
- Is your invited party not up for some excitement?
- Do you think learning a new language would make you nervous?Before deciding on a specific location to say your "I dos," think about what's most important to you and your guests.
- Don't Book It Sight UnseenIn the same way that you wouldn't book a venue and spend thousands of dollars on a place you've never been to for a local wedding, there's no need to do so for a destination wedding.
- Your wedding day ought to be filled with pleasant surprises.
- The best way to handle unpleasant ones is to plan ahead and know what to expect.
- Set aside time well before the big day to visit your location, your venue, hotel, and any hotels you may recommend to your guests.
- Who pays for what?Wedding guests are often on the hook for their own travel and lodging expenses when attending a destination nuptial.
- The bride and groom often pay for the rest of the wedding, including the ceremony, reception, food, beverages, and any other extras.
- A helpful hint when reserving a hotel or resort for a destination wedding is to specify the number of guests in your party.
- With this information, you'll be able to bargain for a more affordable pricing for your gathering.
- Stick to your budgetInconspicuously overspending is a common problem that can arise when spending plans aren't strictly adhered to.
- Planning a destination wedding increases the likelihood of unexpected costs cropping up at the eleventh hour.
- Determine if the venue allows guests to bring their own alcoholic beverages.
- Manage your guest listLiving with someone and taking a trip with them are the two best ways to truly get to know another person.
- Keep the guest list small so that your destination wedding doesn't cause rifts between loved ones.
- Once you get home, you can plan a reception for your guests.
- You should check with your parents, close relatives, and best friends before purchasing and sending out invites to make sure that everyone is excited about the event.
- Don't Pressure Your Guests to AttendThere is no such thing as a "ideal" vacation spot, day, or time.
- You shouldn't make anyone feel forced to come to your destination wedding because of the high cost of travel and lodging compared to a wedding closer to home.
- Give guests time to planIt's vital to give your guests plenty of notice, as the choice to have a destination wedding may be made on the spur of the moment.
- Sending out save-the-date cards eight to ten months in advance of a destination wedding is recommended, with invitations going out at least three months beforehand.
- Because of this, invitees have plenty of time to prepare and respond.
- Make sure everyone can make the vacation by sending out save-the-dates at least six months in advance.
- Provide clear information on your website, and make sure that everyone can participate by planning events and transportation to and from each venue.
- Make your guests feel welcome at the destinationNo matter how organized the wedding planners at your resort are, you will still have to play host during your destination wedding.
- Having a casual get-together to celebrate everyone's arrival is a great plan.
- Don't Overlook a Warm—or Refreshing—Welcome
- Have the front desk staff offer customers a drink at check-in, such as a hot cocoa or mulled cider in the winter, sparkling cider (or, why not, a glass of Champagne) in the city, and an Arnold Palmer or cold cucumber water on the beach.
- Tell your hosts to whip up something special for the littlest (and most grumpy) guests.
- Don't Cut It CloseEach member of the wedding party should give themselves plenty of time to get to the ceremony so that no one from your inner circle misses out on the great day.
- It's no one's preference to come in as a close second.
- Your wedding insurance policy may include a provision that allows for a group shot at a later time.
- Make gift giving easy for your guestsGift giving for a destination weddingis unclear, especially taking into account the cost of travel for your guests.
- If you decide to go through with a gift registry for your destination wedding, one option for keeping your luggage under control is to specify that you would only take gift cards.
- Guests can also be encouraged to share in the celebration by being listed in the guestbook.
- Do Register for GiftsEveryone wants to show their appreciation during a wedding by presenting a gift.
- It's important to remember that many of your guests will be spending a significant amount of money on plane tickets, so it's a good idea to load your wish list with items that can be purchased at a variety of price points.
- In any case, let your guests know that children are welcome to attend your wedding, as many of them will likely wish to combine your special day with a family vacation.
- Arrange for babysitter services in advance to help them out.
- "If you want privacy after the reception, plan for itAfter the ceremony, some newlyweds like to go to a quiet room at a separate hotel.
- It's a good idea to let your guests know that you'll be upgrading to a honeymoon suite when the wedding reception is over.
- Incorporating local traditions and culturesAsk your wedding planner ahead of time how you can best honor any cultural customs you'd like to observe throughout the ceremony.
- Keep guests up to speedGuests should be kept up-to-date on the ceremony's schedule, transportation options, and emergency contacts throughout the whole weekend.
- For ease of communication, some couples create a simple website for the wedding.
- Do Provide Transportation for Your Wedding GuestsShuttle your guests from the airport to their accommodations by hiring a van service or limo.
- Do Stock Guests' RoomsIt's not necessary, but it is appreciated, if you provide your visitors with some bottled water and a small selection of snacks that can fulfill their sweet and salty needs.
- Make plans for a bigger party when you get back to town.
- Put an announcement along with the wedding invites.
- Don't ship anything importantPlease do not send your wedding dress or any other items that you will require on your wedding day if you are having a destination wedding.
- Leave room for socialisingIf your guests have never met each other before, icebreakers are a great way to get the conversation flowing.
- Allowing guests to bring a guest can help bring together guests from different backgrounds.
- Plan activities like boat cruises and sightseeing trips in addition to the first welcome reception.
- They've made the effort to come see you, therefore you should definitely hang out with the attendees.
- The honeymoon is your chance to relax and spend time together, but you will also have plenty of time to yourselves.
- If you don't want to feel obligated to spend time with visitors who extend their stay, you might choose to plan your honeymoon elsewhere.
- Don't Stress about RSVP'sAlmost every woman who has ever planned a destination wedding has worried that no one will turn up.
- When do they plan to reserve their lodging and transportation?
- No matter how worried you are, you have no say in who goes or when they make reservations.
- Do Treat Your Wedding Website Like a Mini GuidebookYour guests will need access to the area, and your wedding website will provide that.
- Do Consider Hiring a Local Wedding PlannerGoing without a planner can save money, but only if you're ready to put in the time and effort necessary to choose your own venue, caterer, florist, and musicians.
- If you aren't familiar with the area where your wedding will be held, it's probably better to hire a professional who can make sure all of the necessary arrangements are made with respectable providers.
- She will be familiar with the venue and local service providers, and she can guide you and your guests through any issues of cross-cultural etiquette that may arise, such as how to appropriately tip servers.
- Don't Act Like a Cruise DirectorIt is entirely up to you whether or not you offer daily activities for your visitors.
- At the absolute least, you should provide a welcome meal for your visitors on the first night so they can meet one another, and your website should have useful information about the area so they can arrange their own activities while they're there.
- Have a hair/makeup trialThe images will last forever, and so will your hair and cosmetics.
- Don't risk looking ridiculous on your wedding day by hiring unknown hair and makeup artists in a foreign nation.
- You should definitely organize a hair and cosmetics trial if you can afford a pre-wedding trip before the big day.
- A few days before the wedding would be ideal, but if not, do it then.
- No matter what time it is, just do it.
- When everything is said and done, your photographs will be the only thing left to remind you of those times.
- Taking pictures will be your only hope of ever remembering that special day.
- Do you want to someday be able to look at photographs and remember how wonderful it was to celebrate your wedding in a faraway place with those you love?Or would you rather look back and wish you had splurged on the greatest quality photos money could buy?
- If you're considering a destination wedding, don't skimp on the photographer only to save a few hundred dollars.
- Destination wedding etiquette for the guests Ask before inviting a plus oneDo not presume that just because you have been invited, you are able to invite a guest.
- In order to avoid adding any unanticipated costs to the couple's budget, you should consult with them in advance.
- Pack accordinglyTo avoid showing up unprepared, make sure to study the wedding itinerary carefully and bring appropriate attire.
- Take into account the weather forecast and the wedding's aesthetic while deciding what to bring.
- Do your best to ground yourself in reality.
- If you must give a present, consider sending a gift card or something easily transportable to the happy couple before they leave on their honeymoon.
- After a wedding in Jamaica, it might be tricky to transport a large amount of kitchenware back to the United States.
- It'll be a fun ride!It's important for everyone involved, from the bride and groom to the wedding party, to put in plenty of time and effort while preparing a wedding at a faraway location.
Frequently Asked Questions About Wedding Do's and Don'ts
While a regular wedding invitation goes out eight weeks before the wedding and save-the-dates go out around four to six months in advance, a destination wedding invitation should go out at least 12 weeks in advance.
Traditionally, the hosts offer to pay for the accommodations for the bridesmaids and the groomsmen. However, if this will be out of your budget you can let your wedding party know and tell them that they are not obligated to give you any gifts on top of this - just being there on your special day is a gift.
For destination weddings, the percentage of guests that will attend will vary significantly. We have found that between 35% and 75% of those invited will typically show up for a ceremony or reception.
Simply put, it's not selfish to get married on a specific destination that you want. Yes, it might be a little inconvenient for the guests, but, it's never selfish. Besides, people who want to see you happily get married would always support your decisions regardless of where you want to hold your big day.
You will probably have to hire a wedding planner and other vendors — and you likely won't meet them in person beforehand. For her destination wedding, Jabali said they definitely needed a wedding planner. "You have to have someone in the area who knows the vendors,"